Bejil, Oscar J.: - My name is Oscar J. Bejil, and I am married to Catherine V. Bejil with the help of Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit, to some people, is like having a new car in the garage and never learning how to drive it! We will try to help you drive that spiritual car with this book. I have been a Christian for over sixty years. And I have been in God's ministry for over forty years. I was the pastor of four different churches. I have started two churches from scratch. I have worked in many different places outside the church. Hospice is one of those places where I learned about life and death.