What sex and relationship life would you choose if you could have anything you wanted?

When Amy Palatnick became single in her mid-40's, she hoped to find it all: flirtation, sexual healing, deeper orgasms, and true love-or loves. Most of all, she wanted to overcome her lifelong habit of people-pleasing. Amy set out to:

● Become more honest and direct

● Change her relationship style

● Feel more connected to her sexuality

● Eventually, find love

With an immense love for humanity (and for kissing), and bucket loads of sass and frankness, Amy shares her intimate journey of 82 dates over a five-year period.

You'll find yourself blushing at Amy's escapades and resonating with her sincere quest for connection. Filled with juicy tales of airport encounters, sexy professors, a bona fide love potion, and even "cuddlingus," this book is an exuberant and poignant ride on the dating rollercoaster.



Can I Be Honest With You? is an unbridled celebration of sexuality, love, and empowerment that will leave you feeling inspired to thrive in your own relationship to life and love.

Who knew dating could be so challenging-and rewarding!



When Amy Palatnick became single in her mid-forties, she wanted it all: flirtation, sexual healing, deeper orgasms, and true love-or loves. But she was so flustered after her first date that she put on her big girl panties and decided to use her dating experiences for personal empowerment.

You'll find yourself blushing at Amy's escapades, resonating with her struggles, and celebrating her many successes throughout this five-year quest, an Oregonian version of Sex and the City.

Filled with juicy tales of airport encounters, sexy professors, a bona-fide love potion, and even "cuddlingus," this vicarious, open-hearted ride on the dating rollercoaster will inspire you to thrive in your own relationship to life and love.

Who knew dating could be so challenging-and rewarding!



When Amy Palatnick became single in her mid-forties, she wanted it all: flirtation, sexual healing, deeper orgasms, and true love-or loves. But she was so flustered after her first date that she put on her big girl panties and decided to use her dating experiences for personal empowerment.

You'll find yourself blushing at Amy's escapades, resonating with her struggles, and celebrating her many successes throughout this five-year quest, an Oregonian version of Sex and the City.

Filled with juicy tales of airport encounters, sexy professors, a bona-fide love potion, and even "cuddlingus," this vicarious, open-hearted ride on the dating rollercoaster will inspire you to thrive in your own relationship to life and love.