In our post-culture-war world defensiveness saturates everything from our political discourse to our social media discussions. We have lost the art of honest and open conversation. Almost every dialogue has become a boxing match.

This book is about recovering the lost art of conversation. It will teach you to dance instead of fight in everyday relationships. Weaving together theology, psychology, and years of experience Brandon Booth will help you:

- Understand why conversations become defensive,
- Appreciate the complexity of people's life stories,
- Genuinely listen to others so they feel truly heard,
- Effectively and gently ask critical questions, and
- Make conversations collaborative not combative.

This book is an essential preface to any study of Christian apologetics, but more than that, it is an immensely practical guide on how to speak truth lovingly with anyone. Pastors, parents, students, and everyone else will find helpful insights and tools in this book. It will become a constant reference for anyone who wants to invite others to dance, not fight, in conversation.