If we look back in history, nothing has ever been more thrilling, more exciting, more challenging, than the ''mysterious'' relationship that captured the eyes of the spectators in the stands and touched the hearts of the people, like the man-horse relationship. A relationship that impressed by the discrepancy between the power, the savagery, but also the sensitivity that a majestic animal such as the horse shows, and the human side, man with the reason and prejudice that often characterizes us. Put together we can see how the finesse of the human approach, the firmness of gestures, communication in all its forms, emotional intelligence and above all, patience are the necessary attributes of a partnership relationship not only with a human, but also with a horse, but also the cocktail so wanted by all of us that we need to increase our self-confidence, ingredients that the relationship with a horse does not allow us to omit or skip steps. So, a book with an unusual subject on a very popular and widely debated topic nowadays: personal development. We develop on a personal level with the first brick, ''I''. Whatever I build around myself, around ''I'' is built with self-confidence, with time, with patience, with love, with dedication. Nothing simpler? Nothing more complicated? Well, horses help us in this endeavour like true coaches who sometimes know even better than we do what we need, what we lack, to be truly confident and authentic leaders in our own lives.